Jan
FOR A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN HURT IN LOVE
When it comes to love magic, you have to know when it comes to the end of what you can do magically for the situation. Not every situation can be resolved with magic. The spiritual world always knows best even if it doesn’t make sense in the current moment. Even if you pay your spell caster to cast the love spell, you’ll probably find that this will not work out. For the same reason as why it didn’t work when you cast a spell. So it becomes time to let yourself be free of the obsessive nature of trying to get back, somebody who doesn’t feel the same about you.
It’s also important to create a space for bringing somebody new, somebody with the traits, you desire. You can use this time when you are cutting somebody away from you, emotionally, to think about who you want to bring into your world. This is a modification of the original cut and clear spell, but still has a very hoodoo vibe.
How to determine if you can back away from this man
Here is a simple exercise to try and determine if this person should be in your life. You probably have heard of this exercise before. You will need this list to use in the spell below – so take your time in thinking about these positive and negative qualities.
- Take a piece of lined paper and fold it in half the long way, then unfold it. You now have two columns side by side.
- In the left-hand column, make a list of the qualities this man had that you really loved
- In the right-hand column, make a list of everything about him that you did not like
INGREDIENTS
- 1 black candle
- 1 white candle
- 1 bottle of Cut and Clear Oil
- a half-handful of Salt
- a pinch of red pepper powder
- 1 bottle of Come to Me Oil
- dried Rose petals
- Pure Frankincense resin or Frankincense mixed with Copal resin
- A fresh lemon OR 1 packet of Cut and Clear Powder OR Van Van Powder
- Optional
- a pair of scissors, a knife to cut the Lemon
- 1 packet of King Solomon Wisdom Incense.
BEGIN
As with all spells and rituals, it’s important to get into a relaxed and focused frame of mind. The intention you set is one of the most important parts of witchcraft. Focus on your intention gently but also release any unwanted energy you hold. This is called grounding and it is a foundational practice in witchcraft. Then you are ready to move on.
- First, lay down the line of Van Van Powder or Cut and Clear Powder or juice from a Lemon where it says “line” in the layout and then arrange everything –
- Dress the candles.
- Light the incense, then the white candle, then the black candle.
- Say aloud: “Cut and clear.”
- Cut or tear the paper along the fold, separating the two sides. Hold the “bad side in your right hand and the “good” side in your left hand as you concentrate on your desire for clarity. When the time is right, put both sides down in front of you and again say, “Cut and clear.”
- Pick up the bad side of the list and say, “This is what i cast aside, cast out, and cannot abide and i will have no more”. Read the list of his unpleasant qualities aloud, slowly, with great feeling.
- When you are finished, place a small pinch of red pepper in the middle of the paper and fold it into a packet.
- Hold the packet over the black candle and set it on fire.
- As it burns, drop it down into the salt.
- When it is finished burning, grind out the ashes into the salt and red pepper, mixing them all together. Then blow out the black candle.
- Next, pick up the list of good qualities and say, “This is what I desire, call forth, and require, and this will come to me”. Read the list of good qualities out loud, slowly, and with passion.
- When you are finished, place three of the white flower petals in the middle of the paper and fold it into a packet. Hold the packet above the white candle flame to warm it, but do not set it on fire. Say, “Cut and clear, cut and clear, I’ll keep the things that I hold dear”
- Touch the packet to your heart, then place it atop the rest of the flower petals, in front of the white candle.
- Let the white candle bum all the way to the end, then take the packet and put it away someplace among your private things where no one will find it.
For many women, you’ll find that the next man who loves you will come to you with as many of these good qualities and will be an all-around better person than the last one.
CLEANING UP
Bury all the leftover incense ashes, white wax, and unused flower petals from the white/good side in your own yard. Carry the leftovers from the black/bad side to a crossroads or running water, and throw them away so they will disperse.
The ground-up ashes, Pepper, and Salt should be thrown over your left shoulder as you walk away from the disposal ground — and don’t look back.
Spiritual showering is a form of cleansing meant to be a reset button for your energy. Many people believe that a spiritual shower will put an end to adverse conditions and open the way for more emotionally stable and balance. The healing powers of herbs, plants, and roots facilitate the healing of the mind, body, and spirit. There are many types of herbs to use such as white sage, but commercially prepared formulas are also a wonderful.
Instructions:
As you wash your body in the shower with the spiritual bath, pray and clear your mind. Use the moment to connect to your inner source of personal power.
As you have your bath, you would say something like this prayer
“Today I let go of fear, overthinking, and worries. I now cleanse away the destructive energy. I am ready to awaken my intuition. I let go of the tension. I will release unconscious bad energy to open up to spiritual experience and deep healing. I am ready to let go and release inner conflict and struggle. I choose to think positively and create a wonderful and successful life for myself. I will celebrate each goal I accomplish with gratitude and joy. Every day I will become more confident, powerful, and successful. Amen.”
Repeat daily or as needed till you feel better.
Other Considerations
If you are a student from any of our courses, you may be wondering if you could work with a spiritual guide. Here are some additional suggestions you could include in your spell to assist.
Orisha Yemaya
Orishas are spiritual beings who have been tasked with maintaining this Earth, watching over the affairs of humanity and each has dominion over a portion of nature. Each Orisha is identified with natural forces as well as with human interests or endeavors. These Orishas are mediators between humanity and the Supreme Being.
Pray to Orishas because they are already in heaven, and they can intercede for you. In moments of anxiety, you need to hope and believe in something that helps you recover faith and maintain peace in your life.
Yemaya can help to make your life more stable and offer you security.
Yemaya Prayer:
“Yemaya please guide and protect me.
Open the doors of opportunity by removing obstacles from my path.
Give me the courage to overcome my problems and defeat my enemies.
Bring justice and balance to my life by bestowing your wisdom upon me.
With your powers please give me the strength to fight and win my daily battles.
I am ready for your winds of change that bring prosperity to my realm.
AMEN.”
Orisha Obatala
Obatala encourages us to be patient and to handle matters with calm and reason.
Obatala Prayer:
“Obatala please guide and protect me.
Open the doors of opportunity by removing obstacles from my path.
Give me the courage to overcome my problems and defeat my enemies.
Bring justice and balance to my life by bestowing your wisdom upon me.
With your powers please give me the strength to fight and win my daily battles.
I am ready for your winds of change that bring prosperity to my realm.
AMEN.”
Santa Muerte
Holy Death For Making Positive Changes Time To End Suffering Cut Negative Influences Brighter Future
Santa Muerte represents the feminine power of death in that it is a force for positive change, growth, and renewal by reaping and burning the fall fields, the spring planting will be made so much richer. There are a lot of awful things going on in the world today, and many of us just want an end to the pain, suffering and confusion. The death of our fears and suffering in order to plant a new and brighter future is just what we want and is the power that Santa Muerte represents. Help in situations of love difficulties, financial difficulties, health difficulties and much more.
Ask the Holy Death to help you in your time of need, and she will hear you out and help you.
Saints are spiritual beings who have been tasked with maintaining this Earth, watching over the affairs of humanity and each has dominion over a portion of nature. Each Saint is identified with natural forces as well as with human interests or endeavors. These Saints are mediators between humanity and the Supreme Being.
Santa Muerte Prayer:
“My Dearest and most holy Santa Muerte.
Thank you for all that you do, have done, and go on doing for me.
I ask you to please bring light my way and that you keep away from me all possible aggressions, obstacles, and limitations, so that I may go on freely progressing towards happiness and prosperity.
You are the guardian of all people including prisoners, runaways, abused and abandoned women, and children.
Protect and help me to avoid negative casualties, traps, and lies, and keep unseen danger away.
Let me always stand in your divine light.
Amen.”
